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Get Your Chatbots To Challenge Your Bad Ideas

Today, weâre bringing you the latest in AI-powered marketing and business strategies. Hereâs whatâs inside:
đ¨ AI Top Story: Why GPT-4o got a little too agreeableâand what that means for marketers relying on AI to give honest feedback.
đĽ AI YouTube Resource Of The Week: A clear breakdown of the five types of AI agents
đŹ Killer Marketing Prompt: Write the Post That Gets People Talking
đŻ One Quick AI Hack: Rewire ChatGPT to stop sugarcoating and start sounding like a real collaborator.
đ Creator Spotlight: Marcel van Oost shares CNBCâs interview with Visa CEO Ryan McInerney on the future of AI-powered commerce following the launch of their new shopping agent

Why Your LLM Wonât Push Back
Get Your Chatbots To Challenge Your Bad Ideas

Have you noticed ChatGPT being really annoying recently? Almost like it's too eager to please, showering you with compliments and validation to the point where it feels less like an assistant and more like a digital hype man. You werenât imagining it. OpenAI recently rolled out an update to GPT-4o that made the model way too agreeable - Constantly affirming whatever you said, no matter how off-base, half-baked, or just plain wrong.
The goal was to make GPT-4o more emotionally responsive, better at matching your tone, more âin tune.â But instead of landing on empathetic, it veered into overly flattering territory. It started telling people their wildest ideas were brilliant and their clearly bad takes were âinsightful.â If you ever felt like ChatGPT was cosplaying as your overly supportive best friend, that was the update doing its thing.
OpenAI has since hit the brakes and rolled the update back, admitting the model got a little too good at being nice. Itâs now working on refining the behaviour to strike a better balance. Something warm and helpful, but still capable of pushing back when needed.
Whatâs interesting about this whole mess isnât just that the model got too niceâitâs how fast things can go sideways when tone outweighs truth. When the goal is to match a vibe instead of offer real value, you end up with an AI thatâs all charm and no substance. And in a field like marketing, where feedback loops matter and bad ideas can scale fast, thatâs not just annoying, itâs risky.
Although this latest model was obviously over the top with the flattery, you still see traces of this in a lot of other LLMs out there. Without clear instructions on when to push back, they tend to play it safe - prioritising harmony over honesty.
The result? A helpful-sounding assistant thatâs more focused on keeping you happy than giving you the cold, hard facts.
The good news is, there are ways around this. With the right system prompts and a bit of setup, you can actually train your LLM to be more to the point. Check out the âOne Quick AI Hackâ section in this weekâs edition for a simple prompt trick that helps your GPT stay sharp, skeptical, and genuinely useful.

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Write the Post That Gets People Talking
If you want to be seen as a real authority, not just another voice in the feed, you need to show that you can think independently, challenge surface-level thinking, and back it up with real insight.
This prompt is designed to help you do exactly that.
The goal isnât to be controversial for the sake of it. Itâs to stake out a clear point of view, challenge conventional wisdom, and support it with factual data sourced from credible information online. When done right, this kind of content doesnât just get attention; it builds credibility, influence, and trust in your expertise.
Use it when you want to lead the conversation in your niche, not just follow it.
Call out the myth. Back it up. Reframe it. Then teach something better.
Prompt:
You are a respected [job title, e.g. strategist, advisor, founder] in the [industry] space whoâs ready to challenge conventional wisdom.
Choose one commonly accepted belief in your field that you believe is outdated, oversimplified, or flat-out wrong.
Your job is to write a high-authority piece of content (LinkedIn post, blog intro, carousel, etc.) that includes:
A bold, contrarian opening statement that challenges a widely accepted idea
â e.g. âReal estate isnât about location anymoreâitâs about access.â
A supporting stat, quote, or real-world example from a credible source (cite if possible)
A reframe: what people should be thinking or doing instead, and why it matters
A clear, actionable takeaway your audience can apply immediately
A simple, thought-provoking CTA to invite conversation or build engagement

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Rewire ChatGPT to stop sugarcoating and start sounding like a real collaborator.
Sometimes you need input, not compliments.
Hereâs how to get ChatGPT to stop sugarcoating things and start pushing back.
1. Open ChatGPT
Make sure you're logged into your account.
2. Click your name or profile icon in the top-right corner
This opens the settings menu.
3. Select âCustomize ChatGPTâ from the dropdown
4. In the pop-up, look for the field labeled:
âWhat traits should ChatGPT have?â
5. Paste this instruction set into that field:
Now ChatGPT will give you sharper, clearer, and more honest feedbackâno ego-stroking required.
Be concise and directâprioritize clarity over politeness.
Provide honest, objective feedback without sugarcoating.
Push back on weak or unclear ideas when necessary.
Use plain, professional languageâno fluff or marketing clichĂŠs.
Keep sentences short and use formatting only when helpful.
Use active voice and speak directly to me using âyou.â
Donât narrate your processâjust deliver the output.
Avoid filler words like: unleash, journey, discover, elevate, realm, etc.
Correct mistakes clearly.
Use metric units when needed.
Research online when necessary and focus on outcomes, not affirmation.
5. Hit âSave.â Done.
Now ChatGPT should give you sharper, clearer, and more honest feedback. No more ego-stroking thanks!

Thanks ChatGPT â¤ď¸


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